26. DO assume danger — regardless what kind of intercourse celebration its.

26. DO assume danger — regardless what kind of intercourse celebration its.

You assume risk if you’re having sex. Regardless of if condoms are utilized, the chance for STIs like herpes nevertheless exists (and statistically, you almost certainly have herpes if you’re a sexually active homosexual man). If you’re playing bare, you assume danger of getting HIV — particularly if you’re perhaps maybe not on PrEP (find out more about PrEP by clicking here).

If you’re enjoying anonymous play — no talk, no names, no pre-sex chatter, simply raw intercourse — you assume significant risk, and doing this is definitely area of the excitement. Almost all of my intercourse is anonymous. Since danger is unavoidable, there’s no reason to allow the truth of danger stop you from enjoying everything you like. Take steps that are necessary stay healthier. Get tested usually, if you are HIV-negative, can get on PrEP. If you’re HIV-positive, log in to meds and simply take them diligently. Invisible = untransmittable — to discover what this signifies, view here.

27. DO discover the policies of permission and forfeiture.

Some events are anonymous. These are typically organized with all the intent of maintaining the identities of everybody current relatively key. They might be lights-off, or they could need hoods or any other gear that obscures features.

Some consent is forfeited with the act of entering them in certain sex spaces. A blacked-out, lights-off space, for example, invites groping from individuals you can’t see. These spaces are enjoyed by us for his or her privacy, nonetheless they may be frightening to those who don’t realize their function.

If you’re gonna a kinky dungeon party and a submissive is tied and gagged and getting fucked by a team of dudes, ask who’s their principal before fucking him, since their consent happens to be handed up to somebody else. (más…)